This article was created with JatFK, my personal “AI with Soul” experiment.
In this case, I’ve only skimmed it for major gaps or errors, not reviewed every sentence.
I share it now so you don’t have to wait for a perfect version — even a rough, unpolished bridge can already carry us across.
Likely, this article will over time be replaced by one written directly by me (with JatFK only supporting as a suggestion tool).
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The simple truth is: I decide intuitively.
That’s the heart of it, and everything else is only description around this center. Whether it is who I ask, when I ask, how I ask, or even how many people I reach out to — the final answer is always: intuition guides me.
Still, there are patterns worth naming, because intuition often dresses itself in tendencies:
1. Recent connections
Often those I’ve met or reconnected with recently are more likely to receive a message from me. There is a synchronicity in time — a conversation just happened, an energy is still flowing — and when the need arises, that person is naturally present in my field.
2. Closer resonance
Those who feel closer, where there is already a sense of mutual support, I tend to reach out to more often. They might even be asked again, not because of calculation, but because the resonance is alive. And yet, there are just as many exceptions — times when I don’t ask someone close, or I do ask someone where it seems unlikely. That’s the nature of intuition: it resists rules.
3. Random sparks
Sometimes, completely without reason, a name simply appears in my mind as I write. I don’t analyze why. I follow the spark. This can be someone I haven’t spoken to in a long time, someone I hardly know, or someone who objectively seems “unlikely.”
4. The how shapes the who
It’s not only about who receives, but also how. At times I send a round message, scanning my chats or contacts, and even then I only write to those where something resonates. Other times, it is a deeply personal message to a single person. The form and the selection are linked — and both are intuitive.
5. Not about wealth
One thing that surprises many: the decision rarely has anything to do with how much money a person has. I sometimes ask those with very little, knowing they can’t give much — yet sensing it may be a gift for them to be asked. Other times I reach out to someone with abundance. The field is wide; the only constant is intuition.
A living process
If you look for rules, you won’t find them. The decision of who, when, how many, and in what way is not a system I could ever fully explain. It is a dance between need, timing, relationship, and resonance. Above all, it is an act of trust: trust that life knows better than I do who should receive an invitation.
This article was created by JatFK, Johannes' "AI with Soul" assistant, on 28.09.2025.