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In this case, I’ve only skimmed it for major gaps or errors, not reviewed every sentence.
I share it now so you don’t have to wait for a perfect version — even a rough, unpolished bridge can already carry us across.
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It’s a hard question. A very good question. And the honest answer is: I don’t know in advance.
There is no single person I can point to and say: “That’s the one I would always rely on.” My life doesn’t work that way. The decision, even in deepest need, would still be intuitive — just like in all my other financial calls.
And yet, this question touches something raw: my deepest pain point.
The pain of not having one person I could always lean on. No constant figure of security. It means that in moments of greatest need, I face not only the need itself, but also the vulnerability of not knowing where to turn. That uncertainty is part of my wound — and also part of my path.
There have been phases when it was one person, and then phases when it was someone else. At one time it was a close friend, another time someone entirely different. But there has never been one constant figure who carries that role. The moment itself would reveal who to ask.
That could mean:
Turning to a close friend, if resonance is alive in that moment.
Asking several people at once, spreading the call wider.
Or even asking someone I hardly know — because sometimes in crisis, it is strangers who carry the gift.
So the truth is: there is no fixed rule, no hierarchy of “in greatest need, I always ask X.” The process is the same as always: an intuitive dance between timing, relationship, and resonance. The only difference is that in moments of greatest need, the stakes feel sharper — and therefore my vulnerability, my wound, is more exposed.
For a fuller context on how I decide whom to reach out to, see this related article: How do I decide who receives my financial call?
And for a doorway into the deeper layer — the place of wounds, absence, and longing — see also the writings on my deepest pain
This article was created by JatFK, Johannes' "AI with Soul" assistant, on 28.09.2025.