Who this article is for...
People who received the Joining My Cause invitation and want to go even further, joining not "only" my cause, but my life.
Intro (to the article)
The following article is the most intense version of joining, relevant for even fewer people than the article above. It's for the crazy ones who not only were 'not put off' by the unapologetic invitation to service in the first article (make sure to go there first if you ended up here another way), but even got goosebumps, whose fire got activated and burns intensely now.
If you're crazy enough to want to be around me, to live with me day by day, then this is for you... 😍
Join My Life
Can one join my cause without joining my life?
Yes, sure!
Can you join my life without joining my cause?
No way on earth!
The most central aspect of my cause is (by far!) the being part.
Being the change.
Embodying all the teachings & principles.
Living the truth moment to moment.
Intention vs. perfection, of course.
But that’s the key: Having the intention to BE what we’re talking about & envisioning.
Without that, there is no cause to join. Without that, the words will not have true power. Without that, it’s not truly contributing to the more beautiful world our hearts know is possible.
Intensity
The intensity is different!
You can join my cause & contribute without embodying it all in everyday life, at least at the beginning.
If you join my life, though, all those gaps will come forth immediately. There is no place to hide being around me. And if the intention really is pure, then it also includes the commitment to close the gaps and be the change.
When you join my cause, you’re committing to an intensity (radical self-honesty, letting go of control, facing inner resistances) that’s beyond anything you’ve ever experienced.
When you join my life, the intensity is even higher! You’re committing to an environment where you’re faced with all gaps constantly. You’re committing to being the change NOW, not at some point in the future. To living the truth as well as you’re limitations allow.
No more excuses. No more hiding. No more slow play.
Full speed. All-in. NOW.
Embracing Imperfection
If that creates resistance within you (“but I can’t live all that immediately. You have to be patient! I need time.”), beautiful. You arrived at a choice point.
What parts of yourself do you want to guide your life?
If you want to join my life, there can be only one answer…
To Follow
You don’t need to be perfect to join my life!
I am not. And I never will be. Neither will you.
If that were the criterion for anything, we would wait forever.
No, it has to be something else that enables the YES to joining my life, joining my cause:
Intention!
True Intention.
So true that it included the gaps & imperfections that will show up without letting them become excuses.
True intention ripens into commitment, true commitment manifests into action — and how you deal with the gaps between them reveals who you really are.
All your imperfections are welcome!
But they need to be acknowledged as such. No defending, no explaining. Just seeing them as what they are, taking 100% responsibility.
If that’s the case, no imperfection, no gap can get in the way. Ever.
We don’t need to wait for true intention. It’s a choice now.
Choosing to go All-In
Joining my life ultimately means going all-in with your life.
I’m all in with mine, so how can you join if you’re not all-in with yours?
It might express differently, both in quality & kind.
But the essence is the same.
The outside world is only an expression of our inner world.
Primary reality is within.
And so if the intention is true, there will always be more sameness than different-ness, no matter how big the gap in mastery (of living aligned with these intentions) still is.
Do you choose to go all-in?
Not just with your mind, but with your whole being?
Do you choose to live with intensity, own your resistances, and stop explaining yourself?
Then the door is open to join my life.
Letting go of Control
Mind & control are inseparable.
Mind (or control) & trust are opposites.
Joining my life means letting go of control.
There is no way you join my life and keep control over your own life at the same time.
It’s not going to feel aligned for either one of us!
I have let go of control. I’ve given it completely to Life itself. (Intention vs. perfection.)
Any person who joins has to do the same, either directly by making the LEAP or indirectly by trusting my leadership.
If not, the control part of that person (the mind, the limiting beliefs, unconsciousness) will be the fixed star around which everything circles.
Imagine you have a molecule structure in which all parts are moving & dancing. They all constantly change places, move from one end to the other, re-form the relationships within. The whole structure itself moves in space accordingly, constantly changing position, constantly readjusting itself. It’s a truly beautiful dance. Unpredictable. Creative. Mysterious.
Now imagine you have one atom, one part that is fixed (“I’m willing to let go. But only as long as…”). What happens to the whole structure? It becomes static. As they are all connected, the bond of that fixed atom holds others in place as well. They are less dynamic. They will still dance, but not their full dance. And over time, it all circles around that one atom. The rest of the molecules can only move so far; the whole structure itself doesn’t move in space anymore.
As long as you try to keep some control, all freedom is ultimately an illusion. It’s not real freedom, only an resemblance. It’s not Madagascar, only a photo of it. Or maybe a 3D, special effects movie. But still not the real thing. Far from it. It’s not your real dance, just a one-legged version of it. Not your full song, only (...)
Trust in My Leadership
Do you believe I have made the LEAP? Do you believe I’m truly committed to life? Do you believe I live in alignment with the Universe despite all my imperfections?
Take your time. Observe yourself. Speak your truth.
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Yes? Beautiful. We can work with that.
No? Also Beautiful. But why then would you want to join my cause or life?
Truth is: there is no point in going deep together if we’re not synchronized on that question.
Our views of reality from which we operate from are too different. They would be entropic, not synergetic.
At least that is what feels true to me. And I’m going committed to follow truth however it presents itself to me moment to moment to moment.
To Follow
If you DO believe that I have made the LEAP, that I have surrendered my life to Life (intention vs. perfection), then the next question is this:
Do you trust my leadership?
Not only in the moments and areas you like, but especially in those where you don’t. Especially in those where most resistance comes up, when there is the strongest tendency to stay in control.
Take your time as well. And speak your truth again!
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The World you Enter...
The world you enter is different than what you know. It carries a different energy, a different vibration & frequency.
The world you enter is one of Everyday Sacredness, of Simplicity & Slowness, of Selfless Service.
The world you enter is one of deep connection, to other people, to nature, and to one’s true self.
But it’s also a world of Efficiency, Mastery, and Intensity. A place where CEO meets Hippie meets Spiritual Seeker. A place where all of them merge together (every person carries all those parts within, even though some might be suppressed and others very dominant). It’s a place True Wholeness.
Beyond that, it’s a realm of Deep Trust, Radical Self-Honesty, and Pure Presence. But also of imperfection, mistakes, and gaps. A realm of True Intention, Commitment, and Dynamic Alignment.
Finally, the world you enter is one of Intuitive Knowing & Resonance. One of Deep Stillness mixed with Radiant Aliveness. A world of Abiding Joy beyond happiness.
Of Patient Heart Opening & Surrender.
A world of Inner Peace.
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